Felt like doing a tribute blog this time around.
This was done many many years ago as a reply to a previous blog entitled "PSA TO WOMEN" by Audie

My reply was a "PSA TO MEN"... i guess... lol
ENJOY!
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Heres to a blog entry by one nice guy which spread to many more nice guys out there. It was thoroughly enjoying to read it and very cute. I must say I agree with a lot that he had to say but I must defend my ladies and say hey same bk to u gentlemen out there. Thus I make a few personal statements of my own.
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These are just the opinions from one (nice) guy's point of view [[Credit goes to Audie]]:

Ladies,
Gentlemen,

We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don’t care if you talk to other girls.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
We don’t care if you’re friends with other girls.

Any way that’s all natural aint it? You must be out of ur mind if u think It’d be any other way.

But when you're sitting right next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, especially without even introducing us, yeah...it pisses us off. (How would you like it if we did that with some random girl?)
True True…..looks of ‘WTF’ will be passed around with friends.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. (Again, just put yourself in our shoes.)
Well as long as yall realize u do the same thing we’re good.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that damn important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning. (Except of course a family emergency.)
Same to you guys. Also we don’t care if a chic calls you either. But if shes txt’in and calling you more then wuts considered normal or more then u speak or txt US, then we’re gonna get worried. ESPECIALLY wen we ask u why shes callin/txt’n you so much and u refuse to show us or tell us- “its nothin” “don’t worrie bout it”. Then later u “sneakily” delete all her msgz thinkin we don’t know.
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Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we REALLY mean it.
Yeah im sure u guys mean it wen u say we're beautiful/pretty/sexy/hot/cute etc. thats cool, we like compliments. But the more and more u keep saying it especially wen we're tryna tell u something makes us think thats all u care about. Try telling us more about how u love our laughs/ find us funny/etc. something bout who we are as a person. tell us how u notice those lil things about us no one else does. it means so much more.

Don't tell us we're wrong.
I’d say be humble about it. But don’t sice us then be mad we’re big headed about our looks.

Eventually we'll stop trying to convince you.
Its not that we need convincing. We jst love being given compliments- its natural. But if u stop complimenting us cuz we “tell you you’re wrong” then would u rather we say “yeah I know”? We have to maintain SOME modesty gentlemen lol

One of the sexiest things about a girl is confidence. Not Arrogance...(hint...hint...).
Same to you men. Have enough ego to be confident in yourself. Too much arrogance becomes highly unappealing.

Honestly, hearing "you're damn lucky to be with me," or "I'm so cute I can get any guy I want, so you better be glad I chose you" is a HUGE turn-off.
Guys love to use women as accessories as well. They use u purely for sex and to show off to their boys. “yeah I got that joint”
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Yeah, you can quote me.
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Don't be mad or get an attitude when we hold the door open for you. Whether it's a door to a building or a vehicle. By doing things like this we're not implying that you are weak, we're just being chivalrous and showing respect towards you.

chiv-al-ry: noun. a. The qualities idealized by knighthood, such as bravery, courtesy, and honesty. b. A group of knights or gallant gentlemen.
Good. Chivalry these days is dead.

Take advantage of the mood we're in.

For the majority of the time, we actually ENJOY paying for you.

DON'T "feel bad"

It's expected.

Smile and say "thank you."

*side note: I don't know what girl has ever felt bad about someone paying for them...but dammit that's the kind of girl I want to meet...lol
Believe it or not, in actuality us gurls do feel bad wen guys pay for us. But yes..the bad feeling does go away...well wen we see ur cool wit it and didn’t do it jst out of obligation. But u know in some relationships its the same wit men. No ones flithy rich they can afford to pay EVERYTIME. Wen we offer to pay for yall u guys take it lyk its the end of the world. yeah the guys r suppose to pay but hey we dont mind payin for u guys either, we wanna be able to return something if only to make ourselves feel better bout it. So guys u jst smile nd say thank you. if u feel horrible bout it later jst make it up to us.
But then u have the ones that expect to be catered to all the time. The girlfriend pays all the time nd the boyfriend never pays or always has to pay bk later. Uhh that’s kinda pathetic if u expect ur girlfriend to be ur slave. Yes we don’t mind payin for yall sometimes but …WTF?
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We enjoy kissing you no matter where we are. But don't bother kissing us after you've just spent 10 seconds looking around to see if anyone's looking at you. If you have a problem with PDA (Public Display of Affection (for the slow people))...just say so. If we care about you, we'll respect your wishes.

If you kiss us whenever or wherever...we'll be more impressed.
PDA is fine, jst keep it to an extent. Holding hands, kisses, pecks, huggz etcc. That’s fine.
Groping, grabbing, suckin ur lungs out, SEX in public is not. Chill… that stuff pisses us off. Respect us, we’re not ur play things.
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You DON'T have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.
Understand this: REAL guys like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's or my t-shirt and/or boxers...not all dolled up.

(And you can quote me on that too.)
And yall don’t have to wear 5 shirts plus a hoodie and pants starting at ur knees to impress us with ur “gangsterr” look. Real Women like men who have a mature style.
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Don't take everything we say seriously.
It wouldn’t hurt for yall to actually be serious sometimes either.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry or upset.

(Some guys say what they mean and mean what they say...unless they say "just kidding.")
Sarcasm is beautiful. Those who know me know I love it. But u guys can do it an extent. If ur forever joking around and playing it doesn’t matter if ur “just kidding” its annoying.
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Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hot Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, Taye Diggs or whoever is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.
Don’t talk about how hot Jessica Alba, Beyonce, Angelina Jolie or whoever is in front of us
We know, We’ve heard and We don’t care to hear u say so to us
You have ur boyz for that
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Whatever happened to the word "handsome?"
Whatever happened to the word “beautiful?”

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with just "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ boi/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

...on the other hand I'm not saying I wouldn't mind that either ; )
I’d be stunned by any guy who doesn’t say hey sexy, hottie, baby, cutie, etc.
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Ladies, I cannot stress this enough:

IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISCRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH THE UTTER RESPECT THAT YOU DESERVE.

I believe that most guys know that you deserve a great amount of respect for what your gender goes through in order to continue life on this decadent planet, but pleeeaaaassee...don't go around demanding it like you're collecting money from a bet. Think about this: isn't it better to recieve something as a gift? If you demand it, then it's no longer a gift...it's a chore that has to be taken care of...
To the Men who arent being treated right by a girl! Please switch the genders in the earlier paragraph and read it! Yes women are always and constantly being treated lyk shit and less then they deserve but so are the guys out there. Course u men have too much pride to let it be known and u like to sit on ur ass doing nothing about it but complaining to yourselves. “I deserve better I dunno why I put up with her” blah blah yeah we don’t know why either. You’re a MAN stop being so pathetic and letting her walk all over you- you KNOW ur better then that.
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Honesty is a really important factor, but only if you actually WANT to hear it. If you ask for our opinion, don't get mad when you get it...after all...YOU ASKED FOR IT! Talk, don't be afraid to speak your mind. If you really care about us you should trust in us enough to not be afraid to discuss what's bothering you.
You guys are the ones too afraid to talk to us about whats bothering you. Boys like to keep tough and not let out whats bothering them. “imma soldier”- yeah but baby ur about to march till ur leggs give out then wen the shots come u’d be too tried to run. Yall are human too…only human. Stop being so scared to show emotions. You wanna be held wen ur sad, kissed wen ur depressed, soothed wen ur angry, and cry wen ur worlds closing in. Women are pure emotion- we’ll be the last ones to judge u.

I think that lies are not justified. It's not the fact that you lied, but that you were inconsiderate of us when you did what you did. It obviously says something regarding your feelings towards us. Know that sooner or later...the truth WILL come out...don't bother saying you're sorry then because if you were sooo sorry you wouldn't have done it in the first place...

(Would you want us to lie to YOUR face about something that we've done?)
MmmHmm…men always talk about how women cheat or lie to them…well it’s the exact same with women always talkin bout men cheatin on them. You constantly are tryna chk up on us…”who were u talking to” “where you going” “whats ur myspace password?” …wen ur the one doing everything. What goes around comes around. The more u lie to us …the more u misjudge us ….the more u disbelieve us… the more u show how little u think of us…. the more YOU push us away. Remember that.

Honesty is really important...and honestly I believe

You'll find someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you for you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the
eyes....and say "I love you"...



....AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!


All I'm saying is...there aren't that many nice/good guys left in the world...so give them a chance...who knows...you might end up glad you did...



*This has been a Public Service Announcement brought to you by Audie G*


Most gurls dont appreciate "good" guys cuz their so caught up in wanting to look good (lyk a bf is an accessory) and enjoy the thrill of having a "bad" boi. The whole "nice guys are boring nd predictable" umm yeaa well at least u'd know that they would always be there for you, never cheat, never lie and respect you. And Thats worth more then anything else. So wut if ur friends think “oh hes such a loser/dork/geek/etc” Its YOUR happiness at stake not theirs.

A lot of gurls feel bad wen they go out with "nice" guys cuz they feel they abuse them or arent "good enough" for someone lyk them so then they go for someone else. well i guess that jst shows wut kind of person they are huh? Those are jst retarded nd cowardly excuses. Basically i feel most gurls r jst too immature to handle a "nice" guy right now. But see then thats not fair to the "nice" guy now is it?

Thats why there arent many good guys left out there. They're a "dying race". They start to feel that its "not worth it" anymore. Then again its also the SAME for “nice” gurls too. I know its probably harder to see with us ladies but we go through sum of the same shit. Just cuz we don’t fuk on the first date, jst cuz we don’t wear skimpy clothes, jst cuz we’re not caked in make-up, jst cuz we don’t party 24/7, jst cuz we’re not oh-so-popular. Its just as hard on the other side.

Now’a’days ppl are so superficial and worry only about looks and popularity- Shallowness. Its sad. You ppl should go watch “SHALLOW HAL” then u’d get wut im sayin.

Now all IM sayin is…there are many nice girls out there , you jst have to not be shallow…lol….there are many nice guys out their as well…but slowly because the “nice” ppl are being so unappreciated they become “corrupted” and conform to w/e everyone else is doing because they start to feel inadequate and lonely.

So open up ur eyes ppl..if ur lookin for someone stop lookin in all the wrong places. Give that one guy/lady friend who has an interest in u and has always been there for you wen u were with that “bad” companion a chance… and as Audie said “who knows…you might end up glad you did….”